Unbecoming You
The revelation of your authentic selfWhat if everything you were taught to become was the very thing keeping you from who you actually are?
This is the book that started the journey. The one that cracks the first layer. The invitation to stop performing and start returning.
Not about changing
who you are.
Remembering
who you have always been.
Unbecoming You is the revelation of your authentic, loving being — the one who was once rejected out of shame and the belief of not being good enough to live up to others' expectations.
Through years of inner work — from trauma healing and shadow integration to energetic alignment and spiritual initiation — Yuliana Francie distilled a framework that begins not with doing more, but with undoing what was never truly yours.
This is the book that begins the crossing. The one that names what has been keeping you performing instead of living.
Unlearn
What No Longer Serves
The beliefs, the conditioning, the stories that were handed to you as truth. They kept you safe. They are not who you are. This is where you set them down — with gratitude, not shame.
Uncover
Your True Self
Beneath the performance, beneath the patterns, beneath the identity that was built for approval — she is still there. Waiting. This is the step where you begin to hear her again.
Unleash
Your Power
The power that was always there — not manufactured, not performed — but reclaimed. This is where you stop tolerating a life that was never fully yours and start building one that is.
The woman who has
done everything right
and still feels something
essential is missing.
She has built the career, the relationships, the life — and feels strangely disconnected from all of it.
She is high-achieving on the outside and quietly exhausted on the inside from performing a version of herself that was never truly her.
She has done the therapy, the self-help, the courses — and something fundamental still hasn't shifted.
She knows there is more — not more to do, but more to become. She just doesn't yet know what that crossing looks like.
She is ready to stop abandoning herself for approval — in her career, her relationships, her identity.
She suspects the life she has built was designed for someone else — and she is beginning to wonder who she would be if she built it for herself.
Jack Canfield
Author · Chicken Soup
for the Soul Series
I love the book. It's good writing. The idea of Unbecoming You is brilliant. Uncover, Unlearn, and Unleash is a very good little model. We are in the stage of development where people need to do deeper work and this is deep work. I applaud your courage for writing this work and inviting people to go there.
The author has a far-ranging, clear intellect and is particularly able to share with readers what other well-respected, knowledgeable writers and authoritative voices have concluded about women's psychological impasse. This is a down-to-earth spiritual instruction kit — the author's memoir of how she suffered and then overcame early programming.
Judge · Writer's Digest Awards
This book is a testimony to all you stand for and all you have been through. It's raw, honest, healing, informative, relatable, and down right amazing. It keeps you wanting to read more — very captivating and without a doubt highly recommend.
This book has made me dig deep into my soul. It's also made me realize that I have to go inside myself and really look at myself through my own eyes and forgive myself. I highly recommend this book to everybody — once they start reading it, they will see their life in a new light.
This book is so beautifully written and inspiring. I was amazed how the author was so vulnerable in telling her own stories. The Reflections after each chapter are powerful. By unbecoming you, you can bring more peace, love, and joy not only to yourself, but to our world.
This book provides not only powerful insights, but practical and helpful strategies on learning how to realise your true soul desires and how to put yourself first. Yuliana shares her personal experiences which I found totally relatable. Definitely recommend to people who are serious about making a positive change.
Unbecoming You
is the beginning.
This book cracks the first layer. It names what has been keeping you performing instead of living. It gives you the framework for returning to yourself.
But unbecoming is only the first crossing. What comes after — the rebuilding, the wealth, the legacy — requires a different book.
Get Unbecoming You
Embody. Elevate.
Expand.
Once you have unbecome — once the layers are released and the real self begins to surface — the question becomes: what do you build from here?
She didn't build the wrong life.
She just built it as the wrong woman.
The second book takes you from identity recognition to wealth architecture to legacy — in the order that actually works. Foreword by Patty Aubery. Endorsed by Jack Canfield.
